When you are a single Muslim, then you must not indulge in premarital sex or dating any person outside or inside Islam. It is strictly forbidden and you will commit a deadly sin that will be punished at the day of judgment.
The best way to satisfy your sexual needs is marriage. For that, you must not go out and ask every other person to marry you. But you must follow etiquettes of single Muslim events. You can find a good spouse who will reward you in this life and in the afterlife.
Here are the guidelines you must follow.
Etiquettes for single Muslim events
If you follow all these guidelines, then you will surely do the best for yourself.
Ask yourself a question: Why I want to marry?
There can be plenty of reasons to get married. For instance, you can marry for money, children, peace, family, and faith. When you ask yourself about the main reason to get married, then it clarifies your mind, and you focus on one thing and seek the spouse likewise.
According to Islamic teachings, a Muslim must marry due to faith. It must be the top priority to have a faithful spouse. If you get one, then your next generation will be on the best foundation of Islam.
Ask yourself a question: What I need in a spouse?
You need to clear from the start about what you prefer in a spouse. If you are a man, then you can be looking for a cooperative woman who can handle all affairs of your house with perfection and bless you with children. And if you are a woman, then you can be looking for a man who protects you and provides everything that you need in life. So, set your preference according to your wants and have a clear mind about what you want and need in your spouse.
Lower your gaze
If you have decided to marry, then you must forbid yourself from looking at both males and females. For that, you must lower your gaze. It will be a pious act, and it will save you from many internal conflicts.
Ask someone to help
You must not directly go for choosing a spouse. But you must involve someone to get a marriage partner. For that, you can ask your parents, family friends, imam of your mosque, and neighbors. These people will help you get a blessed spouse.
Do not meet your future spouse alone
When you have a meeting with a potential spouse, then you must go with an elder family member. It would be the right course of action.
Ask references
When you have a potential spouse, then you must ask some references who can tell you about the person truthfully.
Wrap up
Now, you know all etiquettes of single Muslim events. So, you must abide by them. It will reward you in this life and in the afterlife. Have a great day, and work for your success.
